Jenny Jackson-Adams - "Show Me the Money" (May 25, 1997)
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Speaker | Would you stand for the gospel lesson today? | 0:09 |
This lesson comes from the Gospel | 0:16 | |
according to St. Matthew, 21, verses 28 through 32. | 0:17 | |
The Parable of the Two Sons. | 0:24 | |
Now what do you think? | 0:27 | |
There was once a man who had two sons, | 0:30 | |
he went to the older one and said, | 0:32 | |
"Son, go and work in the vineyard today." | 0:34 | |
"I don't want to," he answered, | 0:38 | |
but later, he changed his mind and went. | 0:40 | |
Then the father went to the other son | 0:44 | |
and said the same thing. | 0:46 | |
"Yes, sir," he answered. | 0:48 | |
But he did not go. | 0:50 | |
"Which one of the two did | 0:53 | |
what his father wanted," Jesus asked? | 0:54 | |
"The older one," they answered. | 0:58 | |
And so Jesus said to them, | 1:01 | |
"I tell you, the tax collectors and the prostitutes | 1:03 | |
are going in to the Kingdom of God ahead of you, | 1:07 | |
for John the Baptist came to you showing you | 1:10 | |
the right path to take, | 1:12 | |
and you would not believe him, | 1:14 | |
but the tax collectors and the prostitutes believed him. | 1:15 | |
Even when you saw this, | 1:19 | |
you did not later change your minds and believe him." | 1:21 | |
The grass withers, and the flower falls, | 1:26 | |
but the word of the Lord abides forever. | 1:29 | |
This is the word of the Lord. | 1:31 | |
Congregation | Praise be to God. | 1:34 |
Speaker | You may be seated. | 1:35 |
You know what they say, | 1:55 | |
it's hard for a two-faced person | 1:58 | |
to put his best foot forward. | 2:00 | |
Franklin was a case. | 2:04 | |
If there was something Franklin was supposed to be doing, | 2:07 | |
he just said no. | 2:10 | |
And it was that way from the get-go, | 2:13 | |
I mean, at four to five years of age, | 2:14 | |
Franklin had already entered the spitting stage | 2:17 | |
in terms of tobacco, | 2:20 | |
and he'd taken up target practice | 2:21 | |
against two of his friends, Johnny and Tommy Frist, | 2:24 | |
who were both older than Franklin was, | 2:27 | |
and taller than he was, but he spit on both of them. | 2:30 | |
And at one point, Johnny Frist picked Franklin up, | 2:34 | |
and shoved him in the wood bin and latched the door. | 2:39 | |
And it didn't even phase Franklin, | 2:42 | |
he was in there playing with spiders, | 2:44 | |
and having a great time. | 2:45 | |
Of course I'm talking about Franklin Graham, | 2:47 | |
the son of Billy and Ruth Graham. | 2:50 | |
And apparently Ruth was ahead of her day too, | 2:53 | |
because no one, no one really thought | 2:55 | |
it was all that fashionable | 2:58 | |
to have a log cabin house in the 1950s, | 2:59 | |
but that's what Ruth wanted, | 3:02 | |
and the workmen would be out there, | 3:03 | |
and they'd be throwing cigarette butts down on the ground, | 3:05 | |
and Franklin would be out there | 3:09 | |
picking them up and smoking them. | 3:11 | |
And so he entered the smoking stage. | 3:13 | |
Franklin says that his mother was determined | 3:15 | |
to break him of this, | 3:18 | |
and so as he recalls, | 3:19 | |
she sat him down in the kitchen, | 3:20 | |
this was across from the fireplace, | 3:22 | |
and got out a fresh pack of cigarettes, | 3:25 | |
and she opened it up, and she handed one to him, | 3:28 | |
and she said, "Now Franklin, light this, | 3:31 | |
and smoke it, and inhale Franklin!" | 3:35 | |
You know, none of this Bill Clinton, | 3:39 | |
inhale to the chief stuff. | 3:42 | |
Really smoke this thing. | 3:44 | |
And he said, "I knew what she was trying to do, | 3:46 | |
she was trying to get me sick." | 3:47 | |
And she did. | 3:50 | |
He said, "I inhaled deeply, | 3:51 | |
and got sick four or five times, | 3:53 | |
made four or five trips to the bathroom." | 3:56 | |
But the main thing is, Franklin said, | 3:57 | |
"I finished all 20 of those cigarettes, | 4:00 | |
and I still remember the deep satisfaction that it gave me, | 4:03 | |
not to give in to her." | 4:09 | |
Then after this he entered the lying stage, | 4:10 | |
and the rambunctious stage. | 4:13 | |
One day, they were going to a fast food restaurant, | 4:16 | |
Ruth was taking them, | 4:19 | |
it was just Franklin and his sisters, | 4:20 | |
and he was pestering them something terrible. | 4:22 | |
And she said, "Franklin, if you don't stop, | 4:24 | |
you're gonna get it." | 4:26 | |
And he just kept on, loving to hear his sisters squeal. | 4:27 | |
And so she said, "Franklin, if you don't stop, | 4:31 | |
I'm gonna pull the car over and put you in the trunk." | 4:33 | |
Well he said, "I knew she wouldn't do that." | 4:36 | |
But she did! (laughs) | 4:39 | |
She pulls the car over, | 4:41 | |
he said she came across that seat with both hands, | 4:43 | |
and pulled me outta there, | 4:46 | |
and took me around to the back of the car, | 4:47 | |
opens the lid, shoves me in there, and pulled it down. | 4:50 | |
Now before she walked back up and got behind the wheel, | 4:54 | |
she said, "Franklin can you breathe?" | 4:57 | |
And he said I was laughing so hard I could hardly answer. | 4:59 | |
I said "Yes mama." | 5:01 | |
But I'd found a carjack and a tire, | 5:02 | |
and I was having a good time in there. | 5:04 | |
Then we got to the restaurant. | 5:08 | |
He said that his mother pulled in, | 5:09 | |
he said, "I truly thought she'd let me out now, to eat." | 5:12 | |
She came around to the back of the drive-in, | 5:14 | |
that drive-in part, | 5:17 | |
and opened the trunk up and said, | 5:18 | |
"Franklin, what do you want to eat?" | 5:20 | |
He said, "I want a cheeseburger with no meat, | 5:21 | |
french fries and a coke." | 5:24 | |
And she slammed the lid down and went on through, | 5:26 | |
even the restaurant officials | 5:29 | |
felt that she would probably open it up, | 5:30 | |
but he said, "She just shoved the food in there, | 5:33 | |
and I thought, "Wow! I've got a private dining car!" | 5:34 | |
(chuckles) | 5:37 | |
And nothing impacted Franklin, at all. | 5:38 | |
After that it was the fighting stage, | 5:42 | |
and the drinking stage, and the cynical stage. | 5:45 | |
These are all interesting ways to say no, | 5:50 | |
but with his pedal-to-the-metal lifestyle, | 5:54 | |
finally things got kind of complicated for Franklin. | 5:56 | |
And it's my personal experience, | 6:01 | |
I can tell you this this morning. | 6:03 | |
It's part of my story that saying no to God | 6:04 | |
about what God is asking you to do | 6:08 | |
is just really not quite as much fun | 6:10 | |
as it's cracked up to be. | 6:13 | |
It's kinda like Jim Hightower from Texas used to say, | 6:15 | |
they promise you a seven course meal, | 6:20 | |
but what you wind up with is a possum and a six-pack. | 6:21 | |
And Franklin's life began to fall apart. | 6:25 | |
It was very complicated. | 6:28 | |
It's like the fella that was run over by a parade, | 6:30 | |
somebody asked him, interviewed him afterwards, | 6:32 | |
and said, "What happened?" | 6:35 | |
He said, "It was a combination of things." | 6:35 | |
Well, anyway, this parable, | 6:38 | |
Jesus's little sermon, | 6:42 | |
found only in Matthew, not the prodigal son, | 6:45 | |
but the parable of the two sons, | 6:48 | |
is such a wonderful little power-packed sermon | 6:50 | |
by the Lord Jesus. | 6:55 | |
And if you rewind the tape and look at this, | 6:57 | |
what have you got? | 6:59 | |
You got a father who has two boys, | 7:02 | |
he says to one of them, go out and work in the vineyard, | 7:05 | |
and the fella responds, "Nope, not me, no thanks." | 7:08 | |
Pretty much like Franklin, impudent and determined. | 7:13 | |
But then, the father, on the other hand, | 7:17 | |
he looks up about two hours later | 7:20 | |
and the guy's done an abrupt 180. | 7:21 | |
And the scripture says he deeply regretted saying no. | 7:26 | |
In any case, he's out there diligently working in the field. | 7:29 | |
Then you got the other one, | 7:34 | |
the father asked him to do the same thing, | 7:35 | |
go out and work in the vineyard, | 7:37 | |
the fella responds, "Oh father, | 7:38 | |
there's nothing that I'd rather do more | 7:41 | |
than to go out and work for you." | 7:44 | |
This guy's in to impression management. | 7:46 | |
And what else could you want? | 7:50 | |
He's cheerful, obedient. | 7:51 | |
He's everything you could want in a son. | 7:53 | |
But then, the father looks up from what he's doing | 7:55 | |
a little while later, | 7:58 | |
and this fella's still lying on the couch watching MTV, | 7:59 | |
you know, waiting for Vanna to turn the next letter. | 8:02 | |
He's thoroughly in to impression. | 8:04 | |
I think that was Kato's problem, | 8:07 | |
the more I think about this. | 8:09 | |
Because Kato wanted to make a good impression on everybody, | 8:11 | |
didn't he, especially in the first trial. | 8:14 | |
And some people thought he had actually done those murders | 8:16 | |
until they realized he would'a had to | 8:19 | |
get off the couch to do it. | 8:21 | |
(laughs) | 8:22 | |
In any case, he never intended to be | 8:23 | |
what he pretended, did he? | 8:27 | |
Yesterday as I came in to Durham, | 8:30 | |
they did not serve any food on the flight that I was on, | 8:33 | |
but I have a friend who was served food on an airline, | 8:35 | |
and it was a bug in it. | 8:38 | |
And he wrote them, and told them | 8:40 | |
that he was irate about it, and very angry. | 8:43 | |
But they wrote him back immediately, and they said, | 8:46 | |
"Dear Sir, your letter was a source of great concern to us. | 8:48 | |
We have never before received a complaint of this kind, | 8:51 | |
and we'll do everything possible to guarantee | 8:53 | |
that such an incident never happens again." | 8:55 | |
Which satisfied my friend, | 8:58 | |
he was not in to suing or anything, | 8:59 | |
until this little slip of paper fell out of the envelope | 9:01 | |
that said, "Send this guy the bug letter." | 9:05 | |
(laughs) | 9:08 | |
We're in to this. | 9:09 | |
And our whole society is in to this, isn't it. | 9:12 | |
And see, obviously Jesus is saying | 9:15 | |
what's being described here | 9:17 | |
are two sets of responses to the gospel. | 9:19 | |
One is no, I'm not going to do it, | 9:21 | |
and then changing your mind. | 9:24 | |
The other is yes, yes, yes, yes, and then nothing happens. | 9:26 | |
And by this time Jesus is winding up his little sermon, | 9:29 | |
which almost seems like a semi-comic routine, | 9:32 | |
and he's saying, "Now think hard, this is an IQ test. | 9:35 | |
Which one do you think pleased the father more?" | 9:43 | |
Who is of course God in the story, | 9:45 | |
Do you ever feel sorry for God? | 9:51 | |
You know, it seems to me that the older I get, | 9:55 | |
and the further I go on the journey, | 9:58 | |
that Jesus just strains so hard to tell us | 10:00 | |
what God is like and what he's looking for, | 10:03 | |
that he's looking for living evidence | 10:05 | |
of who you and I are. | 10:08 | |
And that's not all that unusual, | 10:10 | |
aren't you the same way? | 10:11 | |
How do you decide who loves you? | 10:13 | |
How do you decide who to trust? | 10:16 | |
Don't you wait and watch what people do? | 10:20 | |
And not just listen to what they say? | 10:23 | |
I've been looking at some material from Len Sweet | 10:26 | |
that got my attention the other day, | 10:29 | |
where he, Len Sweet, says that Jesus is a Baby Buster. | 10:31 | |
And I started thinking about that, | 10:36 | |
Becase he says that Baby Busters want your words | 10:37 | |
and your actions to go together, | 10:41 | |
and they really put a premium on this, and gratefully, | 10:43 | |
I have a lot of Baby Busters coming in to my church, | 10:46 | |
and I was paying close attention. | 10:48 | |
And maybe he's right, | 10:51 | |
because they have lived through some things, | 10:53 | |
and they are really in to what's real, and what is not real. | 10:56 | |
They've lived through what they call the four Ds. | 11:00 | |
Debt, diversity, daycare and divorce. | 11:02 | |
And lived with them long enough to find out | 11:06 | |
what they're really about. | 11:08 | |
They see the defining memory for this generation, | 11:11 | |
which I guess would be from about '63, '64, | 11:15 | |
'65, something like that, up to the early '80s, | 11:18 | |
that the defining memory for them | 11:22 | |
is the Challenger explosion. | 11:25 | |
When, we've been saying over and over again, | 11:29 | |
in science we trust, in science we trust, | 11:31 | |
and this thing explodes. | 11:33 | |
And I think it was Eric Severeid that said, | 11:35 | |
there's nothing so strengthening | 11:37 | |
as the shedding of illusions, | 11:39 | |
and what you do beyond the wreckage of that. | 11:41 | |
And so they put a real premium on the real. | 11:45 | |
And I started watching, | 11:50 | |
I know, 54 channels and nothings on... | 11:51 | |
With television, you can notice that even in the sit-coms, | 11:56 | |
if you can live through them, | 11:59 | |
that these shows that this particular generation is watching | 12:01 | |
are very much keyed to friendships, | 12:07 | |
and being real with friendships, | 12:09 | |
whereas I guess in my generation it'd be more Murphy Brown | 12:12 | |
and everything would be taking place at the office. | 12:14 | |
This is an emphasis on friendships. | 12:17 | |
And they've experienced the lack of that. | 12:19 | |
They've experienced what it is to be in a family | 12:22 | |
where it's broken up, | 12:26 | |
and people didn't keep their commitments, | 12:28 | |
or the family is far-flung, | 12:30 | |
or, let's face it, in some families | 12:33 | |
people care more about what's gonna happen | 12:35 | |
to the Taster's Choice couple next, | 12:36 | |
than they do about the members of their family. | 12:39 | |
And it's betrayed in our humor. | 12:42 | |
Jackie Vernon said, "My father took me aside one day, | 12:45 | |
and left me there." | 12:47 | |
"I went to the military, was gone three years, | 12:50 | |
come back, he says, "Well, how was the movie?" | 12:54 | |
(laughs) | 12:55 | |
This is the kind of humor we get, | 12:57 | |
Zsa Zsa Gabor says, "I'm a great housekeeper, | 13:00 | |
every time I leave a man, I keep the house." | 13:03 | |
(laughs) | 13:05 | |
It's this kind of thing. | 13:07 | |
And it's also betrayed, or conveyed | 13:09 | |
in the kind of cover-up kind of explanations | 13:12 | |
that we try to make for the fact | 13:17 | |
that our behavior and what we're saying don't go together. | 13:20 | |
It was right after Michael Fortier, | 13:26 | |
I believe that's his name's, comment, | 13:29 | |
that I went in to this class of mine, | 13:32 | |
which was sandwiched between two services | 13:35 | |
that we do on Sunday morning. | 13:38 | |
And it's a Sunday School class that's just Baby Busters. | 13:39 | |
And I remember one of these fellas saying, | 13:43 | |
you know, "Why is it..." | 13:46 | |
This was a young parent. | 13:48 | |
He said, "Why is it that people do these outrageous things, | 13:49 | |
and then they say, well it wasn't really me?" | 13:54 | |
"Well then who is it?" He said. | 13:57 | |
"George Smith down the street? | 13:58 | |
Am I missing something?" | 14:00 | |
What are we gonna say, that Susan Smith was a great mother, | 14:03 | |
but she just drowned her kids one day? | 14:05 | |
Or are we gonna say Michael Fortier, | 14:07 | |
and this'd come on the heels of his comment | 14:09 | |
Tim McVeigh's ex-Army buddy who turned for the prosecution, | 14:11 | |
and I'm surely not up here today to talk about Tim McVeigh, | 14:15 | |
or to make decisions about him, | 14:18 | |
but Fortier's comment had been, | 14:20 | |
if you don't consider Oklahoma City, Tim is a good person. | 14:23 | |
(laughs) | 14:27 | |
Well how are you not gonna consider that? | 14:29 | |
It's like Mayor Berry's comment one time, | 14:32 | |
outside of the killings, Washington D.C. | 14:34 | |
has one of the lowest crime rates in the country. | 14:36 | |
(laughs) | 14:39 | |
Not sure what to make of these things. | 14:42 | |
Well the good news is, and it's full in the scripture, | 14:45 | |
that you and I can change who we are, | 14:49 | |
but isn't what you do living evidence of who you are? | 14:52 | |
I mean, you can always change that. | 14:55 | |
Paul was a murderer, and he changed his mind. | 14:57 | |
Moses, even, broke the Ten Commandments in anger, | 15:00 | |
and God gave him another set. | 15:04 | |
And he took off and made something great of it after all. | 15:06 | |
But isn't what you do living evidence of who you are? | 15:10 | |
So, this generation proceeds | 15:14 | |
very cautiously with relationships. | 15:16 | |
And some mornings, I think I can almost hear it, | 15:18 | |
though it's never expressed. | 15:20 | |
There's this question that just looms in our congregation, | 15:23 | |
if I really needed somebody at 4:00 in the morning | 15:29 | |
in this church, who could I call on? | 15:33 | |
Is anything real going on here? | 15:38 | |
I even find that this generation's | 15:42 | |
very open to spirituality as long as it's real, | 15:43 | |
or they perceive it that way, | 15:46 | |
but they're not going to take any second-hand reports. | 15:48 | |
And as long as they've been old enough | 15:50 | |
to pick up a remote control, | 15:52 | |
they've seen some of the sleaziest | 15:53 | |
spiritual salesmen in history come across the tube. | 15:55 | |
And so maybe Sweet's right, | 15:57 | |
maybe Jesus is a buster, | 15:59 | |
because he's saying this all-show, no-go stuff spirituality | 16:01 | |
is not gonna get it. | 16:04 | |
This big hat, no cattle, | 16:06 | |
this, as they used to say when I was a child in Texas, | 16:08 | |
that old dog won't hunt. | 16:11 | |
Show me something real. | 16:13 | |
"Jerry Maguire", this recent movie that's been made, | 16:16 | |
I watched it the other night, | 16:19 | |
and Cuba Gooding, who plays Rod Tidwell, | 16:21 | |
a football player, goes to his sports manager, | 16:24 | |
played by Tom Cruise, Jerry Maguire, | 16:27 | |
and he says to him, he says, "Look..." | 16:29 | |
And he's in his face. | 16:33 | |
"In five years, I'm gonna be outta this sport. | 16:34 | |
And what's my family gonna live on then? | 16:39 | |
I am gonna ride you until you show me the money." | 16:42 | |
And Jesus is coming out swinging too. | 16:48 | |
I don't know how you deal with it or how you feel | 16:49 | |
when He says the kinds of things He does | 16:52 | |
in this clip of scripture that we read this morning. | 16:54 | |
I cringe, I literally cringe. | 16:56 | |
I wither when I hear him say, | 16:59 | |
the tax collectors and the prostitutes | 17:01 | |
are gonna go to Heaven before you will. | 17:03 | |
He's like an analyst that pushes the patient | 17:07 | |
past the tolerance level. | 17:09 | |
That's why I kept Him away from me for years, | 17:10 | |
because I know he does this kind of thing. | 17:13 | |
And then earlier in Matthew, | 17:15 | |
it's not gonna be whoever says to me, "Lord, Lord" | 17:18 | |
that enters in to the Kingdom of Heaven, | 17:21 | |
but who ever does the will of my Father who is in Heaven. | 17:23 | |
Beware you theologians who know better, | 17:26 | |
but you don't do better. | 17:29 | |
Well, would you agree with me about something? | 17:32 | |
There's some things you and I can't even know | 17:36 | |
without doing them. | 17:38 | |
I'm thinking of, for instance, | 17:39 | |
in my church, they line dance. | 17:40 | |
(laughs) | 17:42 | |
We have a line dance class, | 17:43 | |
and I love to watch the people who are watching, | 17:44 | |
because only if you get out there and do it, | 17:47 | |
and even make a fool of yourself, | 17:48 | |
can you actually learn how to line dance, right? | 17:50 | |
We also have an exercise class called Firm Believers, | 17:53 | |
and I really need to get in that one. | 17:56 | |
(audience laughs) | 17:58 | |
I'll tell ya, | 18:00 | |
this is not just philosophy, see, | 18:01 | |
Jesus is looking for a demonstration, | 18:04 | |
not just a definition. | 18:06 | |
And really, he never even asked anybody to agree with him. | 18:09 | |
He never said, "Do you agree with me about this?" | 18:12 | |
He says, "Follow me, watch what I do, | 18:14 | |
and how I do it. Go this way." | 18:19 | |
I believe something, this morning, very deeply. | 18:25 | |
I believe that if you love Him, | 18:28 | |
that you love God because He loves you | 18:32 | |
as if you are the only one here this morning to love. | 18:34 | |
And He loved you enough to send his son, Jesus. | 18:39 | |
And you love Him 'cause of the way Jesus lived. | 18:43 | |
And because of the way He died. | 18:47 | |
And because of the way He was resurrected. | 18:49 | |
And you love His Holy Spirit, | 18:52 | |
who is seeking you actively this morning. | 18:54 | |
To counsel you, and guide you, | 18:57 | |
and prompt you, and woo you, and instruct you, | 18:58 | |
and discipline you, and show you the way to go. | 19:02 | |
That's why you love Him. | 19:05 | |
Martin Copenhaver's right, | 19:07 | |
a lot of people just never really have tried this. | 19:10 | |
They've attended a few lectures, | 19:13 | |
but you see, that's a slippery slope too. | 19:15 | |
I wonder sometimes if that is the reason | 19:17 | |
Jesus actually discourages some people from following him. | 19:20 | |
Because he knows maybe that they're not gonna do it. | 19:24 | |
Not really. | 19:29 | |
And so that's tricky, because you and I | 19:30 | |
can find this very intellectually appealing, | 19:32 | |
we can even find it emotionally appealing. | 19:35 | |
I think it was Francis Asbury once who said, | 19:38 | |
after he had preached somewhere, he said, | 19:42 | |
"They wept like babies, but kept their opinions." | 19:43 | |
And so, this really isn't about that. | 19:49 | |
And if you say yes, yes and don't do anything, | 19:52 | |
according to Jeremiah chapter seven, | 19:54 | |
read that sometime, | 19:56 | |
that's pretty scary stuff. | 19:57 | |
We'll be held accountable, | 20:00 | |
maybe be better not to say that at all. | 20:01 | |
Several years ago, there was preacher in Texas | 20:05 | |
by the name of Jim Moore, | 20:08 | |
who had a young man die in his church, | 20:09 | |
very unexpectedly, and he left a young mother, | 20:13 | |
a wife, young mother of an eight year old girl. | 20:17 | |
And Jim says that, one week before this fella died, | 20:22 | |
he had given his daughter his coin collection. | 20:26 | |
Which wasn't worth any money, but, | 20:29 | |
it was a very important gift. | 20:31 | |
And I relate to this story so much, | 20:34 | |
because my own father, he died when I was a child, | 20:37 | |
and by the way he was graduated from Duke Divinity, | 20:41 | |
and certainly worshiped in this place, | 20:44 | |
and may have preached here, | 20:46 | |
before he died when I was a child, | 20:48 | |
he gave me, about a week before he died, | 20:50 | |
something very important that I still keep. | 20:52 | |
But in any case, a couple of days after the service, | 20:55 | |
this young mother and her daughter | 20:59 | |
went to see the grandmother, | 21:01 | |
his mother, you know, | 21:02 | |
and in the course of the conversation | 21:03 | |
they mentioned that this coin collection | 21:05 | |
had been passed over to the daughter, | 21:06 | |
and she just became, she said, "What?" | 21:08 | |
She was very arrogant about it, | 21:11 | |
she said, "I want it back, | 21:13 | |
and if you don't give it back to me, | 21:15 | |
I won't ever speak to you again." | 21:18 | |
And then she called Jim, she was a pillar of his church, | 21:19 | |
she was, I guess, at least concerned about it, | 21:22 | |
and she told him what she'd done, | 21:25 | |
and she asked him what to do. | 21:27 | |
And he said, "I chose my words carefully, | 21:28 | |
I knew this was emotionally freighted situation, | 21:30 | |
but I said, "I'll tell you, this is your granddaughter. | 21:33 | |
You have a lot at stake here. | 21:35 | |
If I were you, I would explain | 21:37 | |
that I was very upset at the time I made that comment, | 21:39 | |
that we're all in grief, | 21:42 | |
and certainly, I would apologize | 21:44 | |
and then give her the coin collection back." | 21:47 | |
And you know what she said? | 21:49 | |
I'll tell you in just one minute. | 21:53 | |
(audience chuckles) | 21:55 | |
As it happened, Franklin, on his 22nd birthday, | 21:57 | |
Billy Graham and Ruth had taken him to Lucerne, Switzerland, | 22:00 | |
and Billy had a conference there. | 22:03 | |
And so, they went out to eat together | 22:06 | |
for Franklin's birthday, | 22:09 | |
he could choose any place he wanted, | 22:11 | |
he chose a little Italian place on Lake Geneva, | 22:12 | |
and after they finished eating, | 22:14 | |
Billy and Franklin went for a walk, | 22:18 | |
and they were walking along, | 22:19 | |
and Billy said, "Franklin, your mother and I | 22:20 | |
love you very much." | 22:24 | |
Franklin said, "I said, thanks, dad." | 22:26 | |
And he said, "And Franklin, you know, our home | 22:30 | |
will always be open to you, | 22:32 | |
no matter what course or what you decide to do, | 22:34 | |
we'll always have you come to our home." | 22:37 | |
And Franklin said, "Gee, appreciate that dad." | 22:39 | |
And he said, "And then Billy Graham stopped," | 22:44 | |
and he said, "no one hates confrontation | 22:46 | |
more than my dad does, | 22:48 | |
and he looked at me and he said, | 22:50 | |
"But Franklin, you know, I sense | 22:52 | |
that there's a struggle going on in you. | 22:54 | |
It's for your life, | 23:00 | |
and you're either going to say yes | 23:01 | |
to what God is asking you to do, | 23:03 | |
or you're gonna continue to say no to it. | 23:04 | |
And there's not gonna be any middle ground. | 23:06 | |
But I just have this hunch | 23:08 | |
that you'll have to make a decision very soon." | 23:10 | |
And Franklin said, "It really ticked me off." | 23:14 | |
But after that, as you know | 23:17 | |
if you read "Rebel With a Cause", | 23:19 | |
that Franklin Graham's wonderful ministry | 23:21 | |
Samaritan Purse, he has taken so many supplies | 23:23 | |
for health and healing, and food | 23:28 | |
and refuge to war-torn countries, | 23:30 | |
and always in the name of Jesus. | 23:33 | |
Oh, back to the grandmother | 23:36 | |
who was the pillar of the church, | 23:37 | |
and had said that her granddaughter | 23:38 | |
could not have the collection. | 23:42 | |
She had been told to apologize, | 23:43 | |
she had been told to ask for forgiveness and give it back. | 23:45 | |
Jim Moore said she looked at me, and she said, | 23:51 | |
"I would rather die than do that." | 23:54 | |
And they've been out of communication now | 23:59 | |
for over 15 years. | 24:00 | |
That girl's already been graduated from college. | 24:02 | |
Can't you hear the Lord Jesus? | 24:07 | |
I can just hear his question. | 24:09 | |
Now think hard, this is an IQ test. | 24:13 | |
Which one do you think pleased the father more? | 24:17 | |
The grandmother, the pillar of the church | 24:20 | |
who said yes, yes, yes, and then didn't do anything? | 24:22 | |
Or Franklin Graham, who said no, but changed his mind? | 24:24 | |
Are you someone here this morning | 24:31 | |
that has said no, but changed your mind? | 24:32 | |
Or is there something you've said yes, | 24:34 | |
but something you've been asked to do, | 24:37 | |
that you haven't done yet? | 24:40 | |
How much time do you need to get started? | 24:43 | |
See, I think Billy's right, there is no middle ground. | 24:47 | |
And I suspect you will have to make a decision very soon. | 24:49 | |
God loves you and so do I. | 24:54 | |
Amen. | 24:55 | |
(religious music) | 25:04 |
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