James T. Cleland - "The Father of Two Lost Boys" (January 5, 1964)
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(gentle music) | 0:03 | |
Preacher | On Thy altar, the fires of pure devotion | 0:13 |
may burn in our hearts. | 0:17 | |
And that throughout this year and our lives, | 0:19 | |
we may glorify Thee by our witness for Thy Son, | 0:22 | |
our Lord Jesus Christ. | 0:26 | |
In His name we pray, Amen. | 0:29 | |
Let us pray. | 1:01 | |
Let the words of my mouth | 1:05 | |
and the meditations of our hearts | 1:08 | |
be acceptable in Thy sight. | 1:10 | |
Oh Lord are our strength and our Redeemer, Amen. | 1:14 | |
Once upon a time, all the best stories start that way. | 1:33 | |
Once upon a time, a series was begun | 1:40 | |
from this pulpit on the parable of the prodigal son. | 1:42 | |
Two sermons were preached, the first on the younger son, | 1:48 | |
a lost boy, last January. | 1:56 | |
And the second on his big brother, another lost boy, | 2:02 | |
last March. | 2:07 | |
Then there was a great silence due to misadventure. | 2:11 | |
And today we recover the series | 2:17 | |
and turn in the third place to the father | 2:20 | |
of the two lost boys. | 2:27 | |
Now more than one listener to the earlier sermons | 2:32 | |
pointed out to me that somehow, somewhere | 2:34 | |
they were deficient. | 2:39 | |
That's probably true in more ways than one. | 2:42 | |
But the primary defect was that the father was | 2:47 | |
under-emphasized even de-emphasized, | 2:51 | |
because of the close concentration | 2:58 | |
on what was wrong with each of his sons. | 3:01 | |
Now, though graphically portrayed in the story, | 3:06 | |
the two boys are unimportant | 3:10 | |
in contrast with their progenitor. | 3:13 | |
Who are the central figures in the adjoined parables | 3:20 | |
of the lost cheap and the lost coin? | 3:26 | |
Are they not the shepherd who went after | 3:31 | |
the wandering animal until he found it? | 3:34 | |
And the woman who turned her house upside down | 3:39 | |
until she laid hands on the missing piece of silver? | 3:44 | |
Similarly, the leading character of the third parable | 3:50 | |
is neither of the brothers, but the father. | 3:55 | |
Who had a care for each of his wayward children. | 4:02 | |
And so we must concentrate on the father in this sermon. | 4:07 | |
You know the parable, a certain man had two sons. | 4:14 | |
The younger claimed his right to a share of the inheritance, | 4:21 | |
it was granted. | 4:26 | |
He squandered it. | 4:28 | |
He returned home to arousing reception | 4:32 | |
and the unexpected party. | 4:36 | |
The elder son refused to accept this turn of events. | 4:40 | |
He would not even enter the house. | 4:46 | |
His father tried to explain the reasons | 4:50 | |
for the welcome. | 4:53 | |
Silence surrounds the elder brother's reaction | 4:57 | |
to the father's (indistinct). | 5:02 | |
And so ends one of the loveliest stories in all literature. | 5:05 | |
Now, what do we make of the father? | 5:14 | |
He is quite a person. | 5:20 | |
Is there any single adjective | 5:23 | |
in which his character may be focused? | 5:29 | |
There is, in Greek. | 5:33 | |
It is teleios, | 5:38 | |
T E L E I O S. | 5:41 | |
A word translated, perfect in English. | 5:45 | |
Teleios seeks to associate both an inner attitude | 5:51 | |
and the resultant behavior. | 5:57 | |
Teleios is used of one who is full grown, | 6:01 | |
adult, mature. | 6:06 | |
It describes an individual who has reached | 6:10 | |
the proper height of virtue and integrity. | 6:13 | |
It designates the kind of person | 6:19 | |
one would like to have for a parent. | 6:21 | |
The kind of person one would like to be as a parent. | 6:26 | |
Now in the parable, the maturity and integrity | 6:34 | |
are made evident in two scenes. | 6:39 | |
The first is the understanding generosity | 6:43 | |
which granted the younger son his demanding freedom. | 6:48 | |
The lad wanted to escape the confines of his home | 6:55 | |
and see world. Or why not? | 7:00 | |
He would be young only once. | 7:05 | |
And the father cooperated. | 7:10 | |
The same understanding generosity | 7:15 | |
is seen in the handling of his elder son | 7:18 | |
when the young reprobate came back. | 7:21 | |
Hearing that the stay at home was | 7:25 | |
indignantly sulking outside. | 7:29 | |
The father did not say, okay, let him stay, | 7:33 | |
he'll come to his senses in time. | 7:39 | |
No, the father went out | 7:43 | |
and took the matter over with the angry affronted boy. | 7:48 | |
The father was knowing, | 7:55 | |
intelligent, sagacious. | 7:58 | |
He understood rebellion in both its manifestations. | 8:03 | |
He allowed it, he cooperated with it. | 8:10 | |
Why? Because he was wise. | 8:15 | |
He was foresighted, farsighted. | 8:20 | |
He saw further than his boys. | 8:26 | |
He knew his boys better than they knew themselves. | 8:29 | |
The father's maturity is also revealed in compassion, | 8:37 | |
in mercy. | 8:43 | |
His full grown stature was of the heart | 8:46 | |
as well as of the head. | 8:50 | |
He could feel for them and with them, | 8:54 | |
that is sympathy. | 8:59 | |
He could identify himself with them, | 9:03 | |
in their demands and in their attitudes, | 9:07 | |
that is empathy. | 9:11 | |
And therefore he was merciful to both of them. | 9:14 | |
Or some of us say that the younger son | 9:22 | |
should have been punished. | 9:24 | |
He had been punished. | 9:28 | |
Imagine a Jew, being a babysitter for pigs. | 9:31 | |
Why be all hot and bothered about an inheritance squandered, | 9:38 | |
when a son has been restored? | 9:44 | |
This is the love which goes beyond justice to mercy | 9:49 | |
in personal dealings. | 9:55 | |
This is the love which redeems, | 9:58 | |
because compassion in man to man relations | 10:02 | |
is at the heart of it. | 10:07 | |
And therefore, he ran to meet the prodigal | 10:10 | |
and organized a party. | 10:15 | |
But notice that he went out twice. | 10:20 | |
He crossed the threshold a second time | 10:27 | |
because the insulted, outraged, | 10:34 | |
legally righteous brother | 10:38 | |
fumed and fretted on the outside. | 10:41 | |
The father never scolded him, he never berated him. | 10:46 | |
Mercy, | 10:53 | |
mercy, | 10:56 | |
mercy. | 10:59 | |
We are not told what the boys thought | 11:02 | |
of their father's attitude. | 11:05 | |
One may have considered him a simpleton. | 11:09 | |
The other may have despised him as a fool. | 11:15 | |
But the father had to behave in this fashion. | 11:21 | |
Why? Because he had to be true to himself. | 11:26 | |
To his integrated self, | 11:33 | |
where the heart and the head were working in harmony. | 11:37 | |
Now there's something latent throughout this parable | 11:45 | |
which had better become patent. | 11:48 | |
Now, the father represents God. | 11:50 | |
The qualities of this unusual parent | 12:01 | |
are the human manifestations of the character | 12:05 | |
of Almighty God, whom Jesus called | 12:08 | |
our Father who art in heaven. | 12:11 | |
God is teleios, | 12:18 | |
perfect. | 12:22 | |
He is mature. | 12:25 | |
He has an inner integrity which is marked by understanding | 12:28 | |
and by generosity, | 12:35 | |
and thanks be to God, | 12:38 | |
by mercy. | 12:42 | |
The parable of the prodigal son is basically a story | 12:44 | |
of how God deals with men. | 12:50 | |
Now this emphasis on understanding generosity and mercy | 12:58 | |
was at the heart of all Jesus teaching about God. | 13:02 | |
You recall this paragraph from the sermon on the Mount. | 13:07 | |
You have heard that it was said you shall love your neighbor | 13:12 | |
and hate your enemy. | 13:17 | |
But I say to you, | 13:20 | |
love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you. | 13:23 | |
So that you may be sons of your Father, | 13:30 | |
who is in heaven. | 13:35 | |
For He makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, | 13:37 | |
and send rain on the just and on the unjust. | 13:41 | |
For if you salute only your brethren, | 13:46 | |
what are you doing more than others? | 13:50 | |
Do not even the Gentiles do the same? | 13:53 | |
You therefore must be perfect, | 13:58 | |
as your Heavenly Father is perfect. | 14:03 | |
Do you grasp Jesus's staggering (indistinct) | 14:09 | |
for man's inner character and output behavior? | 14:13 | |
Your Heavenly Father is perfect, teleios. | 14:16 | |
Therefore, you must be perfect, teleios. | 14:21 | |
It's quite an order. | 14:26 | |
But you ask me, did Jesus draw the correct conclusion | 14:29 | |
from his meteorological observations? | 14:35 | |
The fact that God indiscriminately sends | 14:39 | |
sunshine and rain on the evil and on the good, | 14:43 | |
may be a sign of his carelessness. | 14:48 | |
His unconcern, rather than an indication of His mercy. | 14:52 | |
Now, you have a point. | 14:58 | |
The cosmos as we fathom it, is not just. | 15:02 | |
In the sense of due reward in conformity with human right | 15:09 | |
and human reason. | 15:16 | |
The universe is either less than just, | 15:18 | |
or more than just, | 15:22 | |
so far as the individual is concerned. | 15:25 | |
We may decide it is less than just, | 15:28 | |
and accept or ignore an incomprehensible God. | 15:33 | |
We may decide that there is not enough evidence to hand | 15:40 | |
and live as resigned agnostics. | 15:46 | |
We may decide with Jesus, | 15:51 | |
that the divine equity has the quality of compassion, | 15:54 | |
rather than the even handed justice of a legalistic | 16:01 | |
tip for tat. | 16:06 | |
We have freedom to vote for any of these conclusions. | 16:09 | |
And yet, did Jesus base his conclusion | 16:16 | |
about the mercy of God on the Palestinian weather? | 16:21 | |
I do not think so. | 16:27 | |
He used the sun and the rain | 16:30 | |
to illustrate a point of view discovered elsewhere. | 16:33 | |
Where? Where there was another passage | 16:38 | |
from the sermon on the Mount, which suggests the source. | 16:41 | |
What man of you, if his son asks him for a loaf | 16:45 | |
will give him a stone? | 16:50 | |
But if he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent? | 16:53 | |
If you then who are evil, | 16:59 | |
know how to give good gifts to your children, | 17:02 | |
how much more will your Father who is in heaven, | 17:06 | |
give good things to those who ask Him? | 17:10 | |
Jesus's view of God | 17:17 | |
was a deduction from his observation of men. | 17:21 | |
If man who is imperfect, | 17:28 | |
can behave with understanding and sympathy, | 17:31 | |
will not God who is perfect do as well? | 17:35 | |
You know, it makes one wonder | 17:41 | |
what kind of a person Joseph was, | 17:44 | |
if Jesus was so ready to use the word Father | 17:50 | |
as his best description of God. | 17:57 | |
You say this is anthropomorphism? | 18:02 | |
God in the shape of man? | 18:06 | |
Of course it is. | 18:08 | |
What would you prefer? | 18:11 | |
A metamorphism? God in the shape of a machine? | 18:14 | |
Would that be superior to anthropomorphism? | 18:20 | |
Or we may wish that, especially in university, | 18:25 | |
that Jesus had spoken in abstract terms, | 18:30 | |
like God is the ground of being. | 18:34 | |
But Jesus was a Jew, not a Greek or a German. | 18:39 | |
His language was therefore either practical or picturesque. | 18:47 | |
It had to be when one thinks of His hearers. | 18:54 | |
I don't believe that Jesus ever said, God is love. | 18:58 | |
Though He believed it. | 19:05 | |
He said, God is like a father. | 19:09 | |
Like the father of the two prodigal sons. | 19:16 | |
This is the language of religion not a philosophy, | 19:24 | |
not of metaphysics, | 19:27 | |
and it must be understood and valued on these terms. | 19:29 | |
Now, if man is to be in vital relation with God | 19:34 | |
as the son of a father, | 19:38 | |
then God must grant him freedom. | 19:41 | |
Even the freedom to rebel against God. | 19:47 | |
The freedom to say no to God, the freedom to go wrong. | 19:52 | |
That is a basic assumption of the Bible | 20:00 | |
from beginning to end. | 20:03 | |
It is seen in the garden of Eden, | 20:06 | |
it is basic to the covenant conception in both testaments. | 20:10 | |
Freedom is essential if man is to be a person | 20:17 | |
and not a puppet. | 20:22 | |
And Jesus view of God recognized it. | 20:25 | |
But more than that, mercy is essential. | 20:31 | |
So that man may be restored to son ship | 20:38 | |
after forgetting to keep in touch with home, | 20:44 | |
while in the far country. | 20:49 | |
Or even being unable to realize that he is at home | 20:53 | |
while living under the same roof as his Father God. | 20:58 | |
Most of us want, need, hope for more than justice. | 21:04 | |
Mercy is the blessed word, | 21:12 | |
Jesus revealed that when he forgave the woman | 21:14 | |
taken in adultery and the Peter who denied Him, | 21:18 | |
and the dying thief on the cross. | 21:23 | |
Jesus behaved as if He were the son of a Father God, | 21:27 | |
maybe that's why we call Him the Son of God. | 21:34 | |
And ever since, the church has invisibly linked | 21:40 | |
God and Father. | 21:45 | |
Listen to the prayers, Almighty God, our Heavenly Father. | 21:48 | |
Listen to the Apostle's Creed, | 21:55 | |
I believe in God, the Father Almighty. | 21:57 | |
Listen to the second hymn we sang, | 22:03 | |
oh my soul, bless God, the Father. | 22:06 | |
Jesus has a indelibly etched the word Father | 22:12 | |
into the Christian view of God. | 22:18 | |
Now what does this mean for us | 22:22 | |
who worship in a Christian Church, | 22:25 | |
and voluntarily acknowledge God as Father? | 22:30 | |
We will do well to remember that in his mature integrity, | 22:35 | |
God has granted us freedom. | 22:40 | |
Freedom to acknowledge his Fatherhood, freedom to reject it. | 22:45 | |
He will not bully or brow-beat us into sanction. | 22:52 | |
He will not send us to hell, | 22:59 | |
but He will let us go to hell if we want to. | 23:05 | |
He must, because he considers us persons and not puppets. | 23:10 | |
Paul Tillich has said, | 23:18 | |
"There are many forms of sin, | 23:20 | |
but there is only one sin with a capital S, | 23:25 | |
to separate ourselves from our ground of being, | 23:30 | |
that is from the Father God. | 23:36 | |
Yet, if we do separate ourselves but return saying, | 23:41 | |
Father, I have sinned against heaven and Thy sight. | 23:46 | |
He replies very simply, "My son, my daughter." | 23:53 | |
And there is joy among the angels of heaven | 24:01 | |
over one sinner who repented and also over the mercy of God. | 24:04 | |
That is the good news of the parable. | 24:12 | |
But there is something more we should remember, | 24:17 | |
if we believe this, | 24:22 | |
we are supposed to behave in like manner. | 24:25 | |
Be ye therefore perfect, | 24:32 | |
as your Father which is in heaven is perfect. | 24:36 | |
We'll never make it. | 24:41 | |
It's good to know that God judges by intent, | 24:45 | |
as well as by result. | 24:49 | |
The father in the parable expected his elder brother | 24:53 | |
to accept the younger brother's desire for freedom. | 24:57 | |
And also to show mercy when the beaten youngster returned. | 25:01 | |
For it is not enough to expect freedom and mercy, | 25:08 | |
we must allow freedom to others, | 25:17 | |
and we must demonstrate mercy. | 25:23 | |
Let me illustrate what such a demonstration can do. | 25:28 | |
This story is not a parable, but an actual happening. | 25:33 | |
A boy in Brooklyn ran away from home in his early teens. | 25:39 | |
With a pal, he hitch-hiked to a small town in Delaware, | 25:45 | |
where they asked for shelter overnight in a police station. | 25:49 | |
The chief of police commented, | 25:54 | |
"You kids look like a couple of runaways. | 25:56 | |
You say you're from Brooklyn? | 26:00 | |
I'll just telephone and see if there's a wanted on you." | 26:03 | |
There was. | 26:10 | |
He made contact with the boy's father | 26:13 | |
and asked him if he wanted his son shipped home. | 26:15 | |
Do you know the answer? | 26:18 | |
Oh no. | 26:21 | |
"He wants to find out something. | 26:23 | |
He'll come home, when he's ready." | 26:28 | |
These are the words of a man mature enough to grant freedom | 26:34 | |
to a restless teenager. | 26:42 | |
The boy came home two weeks later, apprehensive. | 26:46 | |
Afraid he had hurt his father. | 26:53 | |
Wondering if he could find the right words | 26:57 | |
to explain why he had run away. | 27:00 | |
I let the boy pick up the story in his own words. | 27:05 | |
"As it turned out, it was Pop who found the right words. | 27:08 | |
When I stepped in the front door, | 27:14 | |
he looked up from his newspaper. | 27:15 | |
And a wonderfully warm and relieved smile | 27:18 | |
went over his face. | 27:22 | |
Then he gave me a wink and said, | 27:25 | |
there's food in the ice box, Danny. | 27:28 | |
The words he had always greeted me with | 27:32 | |
when I came home from school or play. | 27:35 | |
So, nothing had changed between us. | 27:40 | |
He understood me and my searchings and longings." | 27:46 | |
The father was a man mature enough to grant mercy | 27:54 | |
to a returning teenager. | 28:01 | |
You probably never heard of the father. | 28:03 | |
He was a Russian immigrant, a tailor. | 28:06 | |
By the name of Jacob Kaminsky. | 28:10 | |
But you know his son, | 28:15 | |
Danny Kaye. | 28:18 | |
Danny Kaye would say that Jacob Kaminsky was teleios, | 28:22 | |
perfect. | 28:31 | |
He called his father the happiest man. | 28:33 | |
I'm glad that Jesus told the parable of the father | 28:39 | |
of the two lost boys. | 28:45 | |
I'm glad that Danny Kaye verified it. | 28:49 | |
I'm glad that God is like a father. | 28:55 | |
Now, can I be like Him? | 29:01 | |
Amen. Let us pray. | 29:12 | |
Almighty and eternal God | 29:22 | |
who has revealed Thyself to us as our Father. | 29:23 | |
Grant us all to be possessed by Thy understanding | 29:29 | |
and Thy mercy. | 29:32 | |
That we behave toward Thee and toward others | 29:35 | |
as Thy sons and daughters, | 29:40 | |
in the spirit of Jesus Christ, our Lord. | 29:43 | |
And grace be unto you and peace | 29:47 | |
from God our Father through Jesus Christ, our Lord. | 29:52 |
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