Robert T. Young - "From Hostility to Hospitality" (June 4, 1978)
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- | In the stillness of a sabbath morning | 12:26 |
in the majesty of this house of God. | 12:29 | |
In the presence of one who knows us better | 12:33 | |
than we know ourselves. | 12:35 | |
We bow in humility and penitence. | 12:38 | |
Praying together. | 12:41 | |
God we come before you knowing we have tried | 12:43 | |
to hide from you. | 12:48 | |
From one another and from ourselves. | 12:50 | |
We have felt that by depending upon our own powers | 12:54 | |
we could solve the problems of life. | 12:59 | |
We have tried to escape by withdrawing | 13:02 | |
from the difficult experiences of life. | 13:06 | |
We have become trapped in a meaningless round | 13:09 | |
of insignificant activities. | 13:13 | |
While we have avoided projects we should have done. | 13:16 | |
We have strayed hard from the fullness | 13:21 | |
of life you have promised us. | 13:24 | |
Forgive us for our self centeredness, | 13:27 | |
our rejection of your gift of the spirit. | 13:30 | |
Have mercy upon us that we may become your people anew. | 13:35 | |
Amen. | 13:41 | |
The one who knows us better than we know ourselves | 13:50 | |
hears us with more understanding love | 13:54 | |
and forgives us with more abounding grace | 13:58 | |
than we can ever claim. | 14:01 | |
Let us give thanks, for God is good | 14:05 | |
and God's love is everlasting. | 14:07 | |
Thanks be to God who creates us. | 14:11 | |
Thanks be to God whose tender love redeems us. | 14:15 | |
Thanks be to God whose presence sustains us. | 14:20 | |
There is one announcement which is not printed | 14:31 | |
in your bulletin for this morning | 14:34 | |
and that is the inauguration of a series | 14:36 | |
of summer organ concerts. | 14:40 | |
This evening at seven o'clock in this chapel | 14:43 | |
a concert by William Weaver the organist choir master | 14:48 | |
of St. Ann's Church in Atlanta, Georgia. | 14:53 | |
I would call your attention also to the last notice | 14:58 | |
on the bulletin. | 15:03 | |
The observance of the Sacrament of Holy Communion | 15:04 | |
immediately following this service | 15:08 | |
in the memorial chapel to my right. | 15:10 | |
- | Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly | 15:22 |
in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another | 15:25 | |
in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs. | 15:28 | |
Singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord. | 15:31 | |
Let us pray. | 15:34 | |
Prepare our hearts, O Lord to accept your word. | 15:38 | |
Silent in us any voice but your own. | 15:41 | |
That hearing we may also obey your will | 15:45 | |
through Jesus Christ our Lord, amen. | 15:48 | |
The epistle lesson is from the 12th chapter | 15:52 | |
of Paul's first letter to the Corinthians. | 15:53 | |
Verses 12 to 27. | 15:56 | |
For as the body is one and hath many members | 15:59 | |
and all the members of that one body being many | 16:02 | |
are one body, so also is Christ. | 16:05 | |
For by one spirit are we all baptized into one body | 16:09 | |
whether we be Jews or Gentiles, whether we be bond or free. | 16:13 | |
And have been all made to drink into one spirit | 16:17 | |
for the body is not one member but many. | 16:21 | |
If the foot shall say because I am not the hand, | 16:24 | |
I am not of the body is it therefore not of the body? | 16:26 | |
And if the ear shall say, because I am not | 16:30 | |
the eye I am not of the body, | 16:33 | |
is it therefore not of the body? | 16:35 | |
If the whole body were an eye where were the hearing? | 16:38 | |
If the whole were hearing, where were the smelling? | 16:41 | |
But now hath God set the members, every one of them, | 16:46 | |
in the body as it hath please him | 16:48 | |
and if they were all one member where were the body? | 16:50 | |
But now are they many members, yet but one body | 16:55 | |
and the eye cannot say unto the hand, | 16:57 | |
I have no need of thee, nor again the head | 16:59 | |
to the feet, I have no need of you. | 17:02 | |
Nay, much more of those members of the body | 17:05 | |
which seem to be more feeble are necessary. | 17:07 | |
And those members of the body which we think | 17:10 | |
to be less honorable, upon these we bestow | 17:12 | |
more abundant honor. | 17:14 | |
And our uncomely parts have more abundant comeliness | 17:16 | |
for our comely parts have no need but God hath tempered | 17:21 | |
the body together having giving more abundant honor | 17:24 | |
to that part which lacked. | 17:27 | |
That there should be no schism in the body | 17:29 | |
but that members should have the same care, | 17:31 | |
one for another. | 17:33 | |
And whether one member suffer, all members suffer with it. | 17:35 | |
Or one member be honored, all the members rejoice with it. | 17:39 | |
Now ye are the body of Christ and members in particular. | 17:43 | |
(light organ music) | 18:10 | |
♪ How excellent ♪ | 18:59 | |
♪ How excellent thy name, O Lord ♪ | 19:06 | |
♪ In all the world is known ♪ | 19:16 | |
♪ In all the world is known ♪ | 19:24 | |
♪ How excellent ♪ | 19:32 | |
♪ How excellent ♪ | 19:38 | |
♪ Thy name name, O Lord ♪ | 19:41 | |
♪ In all the world is known ♪ | 19:46 | |
♪ In all the world is known ♪ | 19:54 | |
♪ How excellent thy name, O Lord ♪ | 20:02 | |
♪ Thy name, O Lord ♪ | 20:09 | |
♪ In all the world is known ♪ | 20:12 | |
♪ Above all heavens, O King adored ♪ | 20:18 | |
♪ Above all heavens, O King adored ♪ | 20:20 | |
♪ How has thou set thy glorious throne ♪ | 20:23 | |
♪ How has thou set thy glorious throne ♪ | 20:24 | |
♪ Above all heavens, O King adored ♪ | 20:27 | |
♪ Thy glorious throne ♪ | 20:29 | |
♪ Above all heavens, O King adored ♪ | 20:32 | |
♪ How has thou set thy glorious throne ♪ | 20:34 | |
♪ How has thou set thy glorious throne ♪ | 20:38 | |
♪ Above all heavens, O King adored ♪ | 20:40 | |
♪ How has thou set thy glorious throne♪ | 20:43 | |
(light organ music) | 20:52 | |
- | Will the congregation stand | 21:21 |
for the reading of the gospel lesson? | 21:22 | |
The lesson is from the sixth chapter of Matthew | 21:29 | |
verses 25 to 34 and from the 18th chapter, verse 20. | 21:31 | |
Therefore I say unto you, take no thought for your life. | 21:37 | |
What you shall eat or what you shall drink. | 21:41 | |
Nor yet for your body what you shall put on. | 21:43 | |
Is not the life more than meat | 21:46 | |
and the body more than raiment? | 21:48 | |
Behold the of the fowls of the air | 21:51 | |
for they sow not, neither do they reap, | 21:52 | |
nor gather into barns. | 21:55 | |
Yet your heavenly father feedeth them. | 21:57 | |
Are ye not much better than they? | 22:00 | |
Which of you by taking thought can add one cubit | 22:03 | |
unto his stature and why take ye thought for a raiment? | 22:06 | |
Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow. | 22:10 | |
They toil not, neither do they spin. | 22:13 | |
And yet I say unto you that even Solomon in all his glory | 22:16 | |
was not arrayed like one of these. | 22:20 | |
Wherefore if God so clothed the grass of the field | 22:22 | |
which is, today is and tomorrow is cast of the oven, | 22:25 | |
shall he not much more clothe you oh ye of little faith? | 22:29 | |
Therefore take no thought saying, | 22:33 | |
what shall we eat or what shall we drink? | 22:35 | |
Or wherewithal shall we be clothed? | 22:38 | |
For after all these things do the Gentiles seek | 22:40 | |
for your heavenly father knoweth | 22:43 | |
that ye have need of all of these things. | 22:45 | |
But seek ye first the kingdom of God | 22:48 | |
and his righteousness and all these things | 22:51 | |
shall be added unto you. | 22:53 | |
Take therefore no thought for the morrow. | 22:56 | |
For the morrow shall take thought for things of itself. | 22:58 | |
Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof. | 23:01 | |
For where two or three are gathered together in my name | 23:06 | |
there am I, in the midst of them. | 23:09 | |
Here ends the reading from the gospel. | 23:13 | |
All praise and glory be to God, amen. | 23:14 | |
(light organ music) | 23:18 | |
(choral singing) | 23:29 | |
- | Before I begin the sermon, may I say just a word | 24:30 |
of appreciation and recognition to Earl Woleslagel | 24:33 | |
who is the lector this morning. | 24:37 | |
Earl will soon be retiring from service with the University. | 24:41 | |
He has served for 16 years with the news bureau here. | 24:46 | |
And in that capacity has been the person largely responsible | 24:51 | |
for distributing news about Duke chapel | 24:54 | |
and the services and programs here. | 24:57 | |
So, we personally, and the University | 25:00 | |
and the community at large are indeed grateful, Earl, | 25:03 | |
for all that you have meant to us | 25:06 | |
and will continue to mean. | 25:07 | |
And it's good to have you share in this service with us. | 25:09 | |
I guess all of us who preach | 25:14 | |
more than we realize, preach from where we are, | 25:19 | |
from what concerns us or troubles us, | 25:24 | |
or from what we are celebrating. | 25:27 | |
We do that much more than we are probably aware of. | 25:30 | |
We do it both when we acknowledge it | 25:36 | |
and when we do not. | 25:38 | |
This morning I'd like to acknowledge it. | 25:39 | |
Margaret Walker has some words | 25:44 | |
and a little poem that I may have shared with you before | 25:46 | |
but are appropriate this morning. | 25:49 | |
She writes, "Our birth and death are easy hours | 25:52 | |
"like sleep, and food, and drink. | 25:57 | |
"The struggle staggers us for bread, for pride, | 26:01 | |
"for simple dignity and this is more than fighting | 26:04 | |
"to exist, more than revolt and war, | 26:08 | |
and human odds. | 26:13 | |
"For there is a journey from the me to you. | 26:16 | |
"There is a journey from the you to me. | 26:19 | |
"A union of these two strange worlds must be." | 26:22 | |
The journey from me to you, from you to me, | 26:30 | |
from us to others and others to us. | 26:33 | |
The union of these two strange worlds, ours and others | 26:37 | |
that is the theme of the message for today. | 26:42 | |
From hostility to hospitality. | 26:45 | |
Perhaps it is because of some personal struggles | 26:50 | |
I am going through myself. | 26:52 | |
Perhaps it is because some struggles | 26:55 | |
I know others are having. | 26:58 | |
Perhaps it is because of what I see and hear | 27:01 | |
and feel around me. | 27:03 | |
Perhaps it is because I have been struck most deeply | 27:06 | |
by the insights and helpfulness of Professor Henri Nouwen's | 27:09 | |
book entitled, "Reaching Out." | 27:12 | |
Or perhaps it is because of all of these reasons | 27:16 | |
and many more that I do not know | 27:18 | |
but whatever, I think the spiritual well-being | 27:19 | |
of all of us at one time or other rests | 27:23 | |
in our desire and in our ability to move | 27:26 | |
from hostility to hospitality. | 27:30 | |
For much of this sermon this morning both directly | 27:35 | |
and indirectly I am indebted to Dr. Nouwen. | 27:38 | |
His book and particularly his chapter entitled, | 27:41 | |
From Hostility to Hospitality. | 27:45 | |
If one member suffers, Paul writes, all suffer together. | 27:48 | |
If one member is honored, all rejoice together. | 27:52 | |
And Jesus says, where two or three | 27:56 | |
are gathered together in my name, | 27:59 | |
in my spirit there am I in the midst of them. | 28:01 | |
These words, it seems to me, are descriptive | 28:05 | |
of the relationship that exists | 28:08 | |
where hospitality is present. | 28:10 | |
The hospitable place is where life | 28:13 | |
can be lived without fear. | 28:16 | |
Where authentic community can be experienced. | 28:19 | |
Where both guest and host can reveal their true selves | 28:22 | |
to each other and bring new gifts | 28:26 | |
and new life to each other. | 28:29 | |
I sense a deep, deep hunger among people I know | 28:33 | |
for a place where we, I started to say where they, | 28:38 | |
but where we can experience hospitality. | 28:42 | |
As Dr. Peggy Way, Professor of Pastoral Psychology | 28:46 | |
at Vanderbilt Divinity School said | 28:50 | |
at a conference here this week. | 28:51 | |
"The world is hungry | 28:54 | |
for people who will stand with them | 28:57 | |
"in negotiating human existence, | 29:00 | |
"in coming to terms with limitations and finitude | 29:03 | |
"and with the acceptance of grace. | 29:07 | |
"all that unfolds before me," she says, | 29:11 | |
"shows me how fragile we are. | 29:14 | |
"Fragile ego with a fragile self." | 29:19 | |
And thus, I sense we live as fragile selves | 29:24 | |
in a world where most of us not only experience | 29:29 | |
our own fragility but face hostility | 29:35 | |
and feel hostility much of the time. | 29:39 | |
For we live, basically, in a world of strangers. | 29:44 | |
Strangers with one another even in our homes, | 29:48 | |
in our schools, in our jobs, in our communities, | 29:52 | |
in our churches, in most of the places | 29:55 | |
where you and I live and work, | 29:58 | |
and make our way through life. | 30:01 | |
We live with angry, hostile feelings. | 30:03 | |
Estranged from one another. | 30:07 | |
From ourselves, from our past, from a meaningful present | 30:09 | |
and from hope for the future. | 30:13 | |
And yet, hostility is not the way Christ calls us to live. | 30:16 | |
Hospitality is our calling. | 30:22 | |
To provide hospitable places and experiences. | 30:25 | |
To convert the hostice into a hospice. | 30:29 | |
The enemy into a guest, and to find hospitable places | 30:32 | |
for our own lives. | 30:37 | |
But that's not easy. | 30:41 | |
It is not easy to move from hostility to hospitality. | 30:45 | |
There are many personal and family relationships | 30:50 | |
for me just now where I need urgently | 30:53 | |
to move from hostility to hospitality. | 30:55 | |
But I know from personal experience, mine and others, | 31:00 | |
that this moving is very, very difficult. | 31:04 | |
But the word of scripture is quite clear, my friends. | 31:09 | |
Our Lord says, I no longer call you strangers but friends. | 31:12 | |
I no longer call you slaves, but friends. | 31:18 | |
If you have anything against your brother | 31:22 | |
or sister, go and get it set aright before | 31:26 | |
you come and place your gift on the altar of God. | 31:31 | |
Be at peace, our Lord says, with one another. | 31:36 | |
John in his epistles writes, | 31:42 | |
beloved, love one another. | 31:45 | |
And in what I think is one of the most intimate, | 31:48 | |
personal, richest little passages he says, | 31:51 | |
this old, old saintly man says, my little children | 31:56 | |
love one another. | 32:01 | |
And in Hebrews the writer tells us, | 32:04 | |
let brotherly or sisterly, let human love, | 32:06 | |
let love for others continue and continue. | 32:09 | |
Henri Nouwen writes though, in "Reaching Out." | 32:15 | |
Many places that are created to bring people closer | 32:19 | |
together and to help them form a peaceful community | 32:22 | |
have degenerated into mental battlefields. | 32:27 | |
Students in classrooms. | 32:32 | |
Teachers in faculty meetings. | 32:34 | |
Staff members in hospitals. | 32:37 | |
Coworkers in projects often find themselves | 32:39 | |
paralyzed by mutual hostility. | 32:43 | |
Unable to realize their purposes | 32:47 | |
because of fear, suspicion and even blatant aggression. | 32:49 | |
And so we do often find ourselves in these situations. | 32:55 | |
Thus, a growing, crying, urgent need | 33:00 | |
for hospitality where when one member suffers | 33:03 | |
we all suffer. | 33:07 | |
Where when one member is honored we can all rejoice | 33:08 | |
and celebrate together. | 33:11 | |
In hospitality we may offer friendship | 33:13 | |
without binding the other, | 33:17 | |
freedom without leaving the other alone. | 33:19 | |
Many of us, however, are too busy | 33:26 | |
and too preoccupied to make space for someone else. | 33:31 | |
We are, nearly all of us, busy, active, involved, | 33:35 | |
energetic, working people. | 33:39 | |
We are afraid of quiet places and empty spaces. | 33:42 | |
We need noise, conversation, activity. | 33:48 | |
We need to have something going on around us. | 33:51 | |
Quiet bothers us. | 33:54 | |
Space disturbs us and stillness creates | 33:55 | |
anxiety between others and us. | 33:59 | |
A Yaqui Indian told an anthropologist inquirer, | 34:03 | |
you white Americans think and talk too much. | 34:08 | |
You must stop talking even to yourself. | 34:13 | |
Dr. Carlyle Marney critiques ministry | 34:18 | |
and theological education when he says, | 34:20 | |
we preachers are taught to be talkers not hearers. | 34:22 | |
To speak and to preach but not to listen. | 34:26 | |
Our purpose as Christians, Peggy Way told us again this week | 34:31 | |
is not to cure people but to care for them. | 34:35 | |
Or as Dr. Donald Shriver said when he was here | 34:41 | |
a couple of years ago, | 34:44 | |
listening is always an act of grace. | 34:46 | |
And so it is when we're able to listen | 34:53 | |
and to really hear and experience what others bring to us | 34:56 | |
and so it is when someone else is able | 34:59 | |
to listen and to hear whatever it is we bring to them. | 35:01 | |
Listening is an act of grace. | 35:05 | |
So we're called to listen, to care, to be hospitable. | 35:09 | |
But it's difficult. | 35:14 | |
Hospitality is the creation of free and friendly space | 35:16 | |
where the stranger, whoever the stranger is, | 35:20 | |
may become our friend. | 35:23 | |
Professor Nouwen describes three sets of relationships. | 35:27 | |
Where the movement from being stranger to friend, | 35:32 | |
from hostility to hospitality may be experienced. | 35:35 | |
Parents and children, teachers and students, | 35:39 | |
healers and patients. | 35:43 | |
First, parents and children. | 35:46 | |
It belongs, he says, to the center of the Christian message | 35:50 | |
that children are not parents' properties to own | 35:54 | |
and rule over. | 35:58 | |
But gifts to cherish and care for. | 35:59 | |
Our children are our most important guests | 36:04 | |
who enter into our home, ask for careful attention, | 36:08 | |
stay awhile, and then leave to follow their own way. | 36:14 | |
Children are strangers whom we have to get to know. | 36:20 | |
It takes much time and patience to make | 36:25 | |
the little stranger feel at home. | 36:27 | |
And it is realistic to say that parents have | 36:30 | |
to learn to love their children. | 36:33 | |
Love is not automatic. | 36:36 | |
It comes forth out of a relationship | 36:39 | |
which has to grow and to deepen. | 36:41 | |
Children are our guests who have their own destination. | 36:44 | |
A good host is able not only to receive | 36:50 | |
the guests with honor and offer them all | 36:53 | |
the care they need, but also to let them go | 36:56 | |
when their time to leave has come. | 37:00 | |
Teachers and students. | 37:06 | |
The teacher-student relationship is one where hospitality | 37:10 | |
can truly be seen as a model | 37:15 | |
for creative interchange between people. | 37:17 | |
Teaching asks for the creation of space between persons | 37:21 | |
who have different thoughts and ideas. | 37:25 | |
Where teacher and student can enter into | 37:27 | |
respectful, fearless, communication with each other. | 37:30 | |
Nouwen writes, | 37:37 | |
no one will show his most precious self. | 37:39 | |
That is his or her doubts, or fears, or ignorance, | 37:44 | |
or questions, or uncertainties. | 37:49 | |
No one will show his most precious self | 37:52 | |
to those whom he fears. | 37:56 | |
But I might add, most of us will reveal | 38:00 | |
our real selves, doubts, questions, fears, | 38:04 | |
insecurities, ignorance even, to someone | 38:08 | |
whom we know and whom we feel really loves us | 38:11 | |
and cares for us and respects us. | 38:15 | |
In order to help bring hospitality about | 38:20 | |
the teacher today has two tasks he says. | 38:23 | |
To reveal and to affirm. | 38:26 | |
To reveal to students that they the students | 38:29 | |
have much to give, to offer, to contribute, | 38:31 | |
to enlighten the relationship. | 38:35 | |
To affirm students who today in spite | 38:38 | |
of all the many, many signs of superiority | 38:42 | |
and of excellence, and high attainment | 38:46 | |
which our students here particularly have, | 38:48 | |
these students, many of them, | 38:51 | |
are still filled with fear and insecurity | 38:52 | |
with self-doubt, and with serious concern | 38:55 | |
about their own self-worth. | 38:58 | |
So we're called he says, as teachers, | 39:01 | |
to affirm these persons. | 39:03 | |
Hospitality, even in the classroom, | 39:06 | |
the lab, the hallway, the office, the library, | 39:09 | |
or wherever may happen | 39:12 | |
between teacher and student. | 39:15 | |
Healers and patients. | 39:18 | |
Healers here, including doctors and counselors, | 39:22 | |
psychiatrists, psychologists, priests, ministers, | 39:25 | |
nurses, and others. | 39:28 | |
Healers and patients he says, | 39:32 | |
have a beautiful opportunity to provide hospitality | 39:35 | |
for each other and for others. | 39:39 | |
But healers need to be reminded, he says, | 39:42 | |
that they do not own | 39:46 | |
any person who comes to him | 39:49 | |
or her for healing. | 39:52 | |
Many patients, shall we say | 39:55 | |
most of us as patients, | 39:59 | |
view healers, that is doctors, and others | 40:02 | |
in similar positions. | 40:05 | |
View these persons with awe, with apprehension | 40:06 | |
and many times even with fear. | 40:11 | |
And if you don't believe this, stick your head | 40:13 | |
in the door of a doctor's waiting room sometime | 40:16 | |
and see the look of anxiety and fear | 40:18 | |
and dread and unease that is on the face | 40:21 | |
of almost everyone there. | 40:23 | |
This is neither good nor desirable. | 40:26 | |
What healers and patients both must know | 40:29 | |
and must remember is that every human being | 40:32 | |
has the capacity to be a healer. | 40:37 | |
We are all patients in need of healing | 40:43 | |
and we are all healers who can reach out and help. | 40:46 | |
We must be interested, he says, in knowing others. | 40:54 | |
In helping them and us to face their pains | 40:58 | |
and in being willing to face our own pains as well. | 41:01 | |
Hospitality where healers and patients can help | 41:06 | |
and be helped. | 41:12 | |
May I refer one more time to Henri Nouwen? | 41:15 | |
To give us another word about moving | 41:19 | |
from hostility to hospitality. | 41:21 | |
He tells us, | 41:24 | |
that poverty makes a good host, | 41:27 | |
where genuine hospitality can take place. | 41:31 | |
And when I first read this I thought, | 41:36 | |
what in the world can he be talking about? | 41:38 | |
Poverty? | 41:40 | |
Why should poverty have anything | 41:42 | |
to do with being hospitable? | 41:44 | |
I don't understand, it doesn't make any sense. | 41:47 | |
And then I read on where he said that poverty | 41:50 | |
of mind and poverty of spirit are those two characteristics | 41:53 | |
that make one a hospitable host. | 41:58 | |
I still didn't understand what he was talking about | 42:01 | |
or what he was trying to get across. | 42:04 | |
But then as I read and then as I reflected | 42:08 | |
it made all kind of sense. | 42:10 | |
Poverty of mind where he simply says, | 42:13 | |
that the person who has his or her mind already filled | 42:16 | |
with ideas and concepts and theories and thoughts | 42:19 | |
himself or herself has no space | 42:23 | |
to entertain those ideas or thoughts from others. | 42:26 | |
It's sort of like what Will Rogers is supposed | 42:33 | |
to have said on one occasion. | 42:36 | |
If ever you meet a man who has all the answers | 42:37 | |
don't believe a word he says. | 42:40 | |
And if ever you meet someone who has | 42:43 | |
all the answers and all the knowledge | 42:45 | |
and feels like every thought | 42:47 | |
is already in his or her mind, you can be sure | 42:48 | |
that there is no room for you. | 42:51 | |
Poverty of heart, he says, very simply, | 42:55 | |
is that that person whose heart is filled | 42:57 | |
with his or her own pride and prejudice, | 43:00 | |
and worries, and anxieties, and concerns | 43:03 | |
has no space for the feelings of others to come in. | 43:06 | |
The person you or I want least to be around | 43:18 | |
even for a moment is the person who is thinking and feeling | 43:24 | |
about only himself or herself | 43:29 | |
and his ideas or her ideas, or his feelings or her feelings. | 43:32 | |
This is what he's trying to say. | 43:38 | |
Poverty of mind and poverty of spirit means simply, | 43:40 | |
making space in ourselves for someone else's ideas | 43:44 | |
and someone else's feelings to come in | 43:47 | |
and find a lodging place. | 43:50 | |
It does make some sense to me now. | 43:54 | |
This is why the word of Scripture tells us | 43:57 | |
that we must empty ourselves in order | 43:59 | |
to help others. | 44:01 | |
We must make ourselves weak in order | 44:03 | |
to help others become strong. | 44:05 | |
We must give of ourselves in order to help others. | 44:08 | |
Those who save their lives will lose it | 44:11 | |
but those who are willing to lose their lives, he says, | 44:14 | |
will find not only theirs | 44:16 | |
but will help others to find theirs. | 44:18 | |
Perhaps this is why Jesus said on one occasion, | 44:21 | |
unless, unless you become as little children | 44:24 | |
you shall not enter the kingdom of God. | 44:28 | |
Now I know that little children are filled | 44:31 | |
with all sorts of things. | 44:33 | |
They're filled with their own aliveness | 44:35 | |
and their own energy and their own sense of vitality | 44:37 | |
and they get preoccupied at times. | 44:40 | |
But I also know that children as children | 44:42 | |
do have time and space to let somebody else's feelings | 44:45 | |
come in and to entertain somebody else's ideas. | 44:50 | |
Where two or three are gathered in my name. | 44:58 | |
When one member suffers, we all suffer. | 45:03 | |
When one of us is honored, all rejoice together. | 45:08 | |
Unless you become as little children. | 45:13 | |
For as much as you have done it unto one of | 45:18 | |
the least of these, you have done it unto me. | 45:20 | |
In the book "Women and the Word: Sermons" | 45:27 | |
edited by Helen, | 45:31 | |
Peggy Way closes her sermon | 45:35 | |
with some of the most beautiful words | 45:37 | |
I think I've ever heard. | 45:38 | |
Beautiful because they talk about our calling as Christians. | 45:42 | |
They suggest how we might move helpfully. | 45:48 | |
From hostility to hospitality. | 45:55 | |
How we might live our lives of caring | 45:58 | |
in the world today. | 46:03 | |
Peggy quotes a Jesuit priest who on his invitation | 46:06 | |
to his ordination had written these words. | 46:09 | |
We are simply asked | 46:17 | |
to make gentle our bruised world. | 46:21 | |
To tame its savageness. | 46:27 | |
To be compassionate of all, | 46:34 | |
including oneself. | 46:39 | |
And then with the time left over | 46:43 | |
to repeat the ancient tale | 46:49 | |
and to go the way | 46:54 | |
of God's foolish ones. | 46:57 | |
To make gentle our bruised world. | 47:02 | |
Tame its savageness. | 47:09 | |
Be compassionate of all, | 47:13 | |
including oneself. | 47:17 | |
Let us pray. | 47:24 | |
Oh God of loving, caring, | 47:28 | |
healing spirit. | 47:32 | |
Come to each of us now. | 47:36 | |
And if with any one of us, there is a sense | 47:39 | |
or feeling or experience of hostility. | 47:42 | |
Hostility felt from others | 47:47 | |
or hostility showed toward others, | 47:49 | |
God we ask now for your cleansing, caring spirit. | 47:53 | |
To help us to begin to move from that spot | 47:59 | |
and that feeling. | 48:03 | |
And to show hospitality. | 48:06 | |
To help to heal and be healed | 48:10 | |
in the midst | 48:16 | |
of this bruised, bruised world. | 48:17 | |
We pray, oh Lord, in the name of Jesus Christ | 48:21 | |
that magnificent carer, listener, | 48:25 | |
and healer | 48:30 | |
who always seemed to have a hospitable place | 48:32 | |
for anyone. | 48:37 | |
In this regard, oh Lord, | 48:40 | |
make us like our Lord and redeemer. | 48:43 | |
Even Jesus the Christ. | 48:48 | |
Amen. | 48:52 | |
(light organ music) | 48:57 | |
(choral singing) | 49:29 | |
- | Let us affirm what we believe. | 52:03 |
We believe in God, who has created and is creating. | 52:07 | |
Who has come in the truly human Jesus | 52:13 | |
to reconcile and make new. | 52:16 | |
Who works in us and others by the spirit. | 52:20 | |
We trust God who calls us to be the church | 52:24 | |
to celebrate life and it's fullness. | 52:29 | |
To love and serve others. | 52:33 | |
To seek justice and resist evil. | 52:36 | |
To proclaim Jesus, crucified and risen. | 52:40 | |
Our judge and our hope. | 52:45 | |
In life, in death, in life beyond death, | 52:48 | |
God is with us. | 52:53 | |
We are not alone. | 52:56 | |
Thanks be to God. | 52:58 | |
The Lord be with you. | 53:02 | |
- | And with your spirit. | 53:05 |
- | Let us pray. | 53:07 |
(rustling) | 53:09 | |
In a divided and troubled world, oh Lord | 53:19 | |
we besiege your hospitality and healing. | 53:23 | |
There are nations and tribes at war | 53:28 | |
with their neighbors or within themselves. | 53:31 | |
In Zimbabwe, in the Middle East, in Northern Ireland | 53:35 | |
and in the Horn of Africa. | 53:40 | |
Cleanse them and us from hostility and lust for power | 53:43 | |
that threaten to destroy the human person | 53:48 | |
for the sake of national pride or material profit. | 53:51 | |
Guide the disarmament conference now in session | 53:56 | |
that it may bring some small steps | 54:00 | |
toward cooperation and trust. | 54:02 | |
Toward beating swords into plow shares | 54:05 | |
and spears into pruning hooks. | 54:08 | |
There are societies and communities | 54:13 | |
at war with their neighbors and within themselves. | 54:16 | |
In Uganda and South Africa. | 54:21 | |
In Cyprus and in Israel. | 54:25 | |
In Soviet Union and in the United States. | 54:29 | |
Where racial prejudice and injustice still prevail. | 54:35 | |
Where some are too rich and many are too poor. | 54:40 | |
Where freedom to dissent is crushed | 54:45 | |
or where it is used for destructive ends. | 54:48 | |
Where the needy or the different suffer | 54:53 | |
the cruelty of indifference or neglect. | 54:57 | |
And fold us in your loving arms so that we may be | 55:01 | |
emboldened to offer compassion and hospitality to others. | 55:04 | |
There are individual lives at war with their neighbors | 55:13 | |
and within themselves. | 55:17 | |
In Duke Hospital and in Central Prison. | 55:20 | |
In dormitories where dreams and values have disappeared. | 55:25 | |
In homes where love and loyalty | 55:30 | |
have been sacrificed to selfish pleasure | 55:33 | |
or shallow success. | 55:35 | |
Touch these lives, oh merciful God with peace | 55:39 | |
and with hope. | 55:42 | |
With reconciliation and redemption. | 55:44 | |
These prayers of intercession and supplication | 55:50 | |
we would not dare to ask. | 55:53 | |
In fact, we would not know enough to want. | 55:55 | |
Except for the coming of your son Jesus Christ, our Lord. | 55:59 | |
For we too have been separated from Christ. | 56:05 | |
Alienated from the common wealth. | 56:08 | |
Strangers to the covenants of promise. | 56:11 | |
Having no hope and without God in the world. | 56:14 | |
But now in Christ Jesus we who once | 56:18 | |
were far off have been brought near to him | 56:21 | |
and to one another. | 56:24 | |
For he is our peace who has made us all one | 56:27 | |
and has broken down the dividing wall of hostility. | 56:31 | |
In his name we pray. | 56:37 | |
In his spirit we live. | 56:40 | |
In his power we rededicate ourselves to his mission. | 56:43 | |
Our father who art in heaven, | 56:51 | |
hallowed be thy name. | 56:54 | |
Thy kingdom come and thy will be done | 56:57 | |
on earth as it is in heaven. | 57:01 | |
Give us this day our daily bread | 57:04 | |
and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those | 57:08 | |
who trespass against us. | 57:12 | |
Lead us not into temptation | 57:15 | |
but deliver us from evil. | 57:18 | |
For thine is the kingdom, and the power, | 57:21 | |
and the glory, forever. | 57:25 | |
Amen. | 57:28 | |
(light organ music) | 57:31 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 58:44 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 58:49 | |
♪ Hallelujah, hallelujah ♪ | 58:53 | |
♪ Hallelujah, hallelujah ♪ | 58:58 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 59:03 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 59:05 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 59:09 | |
♪ Hallelujah, hallelujah ♪ | 59:11 | |
♪ Hallelujah, hallelujah ♪ | 59:16 | |
♪ Hallelujah, hallelujah ♪ | 59:22 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 59:27 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 59:30 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 59:33 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 59:38 | |
♪ Hallelujah, hallelujah ♪ | 59:41 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 59:47 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 59:49 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 59:52 | |
♪ Hallelujah, hallelujah ♪ | 59:57 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 1:00:05 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 1:00:08 | |
♪ Hallelujah, hallelujah ♪ | 1:00:11 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 1:00:16 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 1:00:19 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 1:00:23 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 1:00:25 | |
♪ Hallelujah♪ | 1:00:34 | |
(light organ music) | 1:00:57 | |
(upbeat organ music) | 1:02:11 | |
♪ Praise God from whom all blessings flow ♪ | 1:02:29 | |
♪ Praise Him all creatures here below ♪ | 1:02:35 | |
♪ Hallelujah, hallelujah ♪ | 1:02:40 | |
♪ Praise him above ye heavenly host ♪ | 1:02:48 | |
♪ Praise Father, Son and Holy Ghost ♪ | 1:02:54 | |
♪ Hallelujah, hallelujah ♪ | 1:03:00 | |
♪ Hallelujah, hallelujah ♪ | 1:03:06 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 1:03:13 | |
♪ Amen♪ | 1:03:22 | |
- | The money which we drop in the collection plate. | 1:03:36 |
The meager time which we devote to worship and prayer. | 1:03:39 | |
The effort which we expend in service to you | 1:03:44 | |
and to others. | 1:03:47 | |
Are paltry returns from your abundant gifts, oh Lord. | 1:03:49 | |
But you can use them, transform them, | 1:03:54 | |
and expand them into testimonies of your love. | 1:03:57 | |
Please, Lord. | 1:04:02 | |
Amen. | 1:04:05 | |
(light organ music) | 1:04:07 | |
(choral singing) | 1:04:34 | |
May the creator who made us different | 1:06:41 | |
the Christ who redeems us individually, | 1:06:44 | |
and the Holy Spirit who enhances our diversity | 1:06:47 | |
bind us together in the unity of Christian love. | 1:06:52 | |
Now and forever more, amen. | 1:06:56 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 1:07:03 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 1:07:08 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 1:07:13 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 1:07:17 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 1:07:26 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 1:07:35 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 1:07:46 | |
(light organ music) | 1:08:04 |
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